Freeloaders & the Girls Who Leave Them

Freeloaders.. So many things come to mind when you say that. Grown people living off of others. Sponges. Moochers. I kicked mine to the curb yesterday. Couldn't afford to keep him around. He acted surprised when I told him 2 weeks ago he had to move out. I told him it's been a long time coming and he shouldn't be surprised. We hadn't been intimate in nearly a year and it was just getting old. I got to that point when I just asked, "What do I need this guy for? He's not close to me any more. He feels no duty, responsibility or obligation towards me or my two children. Can't help pay the bills. So why is he here? Can't put food on the table or help me out in any way. So why keep him? Love? Uhm.. no." And since he's left, I feel so much more.. well.. free er.. If that makes sense to anybody. Like cutting out a hangnail or pulling out a dead tooth. I attend college full-time and have 2 teenage children to raise. I certainly cannot afford to support a grown man capable of working, yet choosing not to. I try to raise my children, my son especially, to have a sense of duty, honor, responsibility towards his family. This is extremely difficult to do with a mooch lying around the house, hoping a job will just fall into his lap, sleeping all day playing video games. So yeah.. sometimes you have to kick people to the curb. Especially if they aren't good role models for your children. And you know what? I do not feel guilty about it.